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Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Feb 1, 20223 min read
Are you overworked but "underemployed"? Time to break out!
Do you feel like you’re working hard but spinning your wheels? Or that the tasks you’re carrying out day-in and day-out are meaningless,...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Feb 1, 20224 min read
Dealing with difficult people when you have no choice
It’s Wise Wednesdays! Thank you to everyone who took part in the beyond Imposter Syndrome webinar! We had some great input from a range...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Feb 1, 20225 min read
When people try to push you to do or buy stuff and my shame recovery
A friend tried to persuade me to join the Landmark Forum – again. If you’ve never heard of it, it’s a slightly controversial, group...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Feb 1, 20223 min read
3 big lessons I got from creating my own job
It's WISE WEDNESDAYS! Last week, I attended a seminar on the future of work. The World Economic Forum, big thinkers on the subject and a...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Feb 1, 20224 min read
Preventing and treating decision fatigue: apply the die
Preventing and treating decision fatigue: apply the die. In a 2017 advert, Microsoft used a statistic estimating that we make 35,000...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Feb 1, 20224 min read
Mental wellbeing, celebrity suicides and the only thing I’m taking away from them
The sad news of two celebrity suicides in one week has sent ripples through our collective consciousness. I don’t normally write on...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Feb 1, 20227 min read
When you feel lost (and 14 ways to feel found again)
Update: Thank you to those who attended the second Leaders Circle yesterday. We had meditation, busting negative thinking, body-based...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Feb 1, 20226 min read
Should you develop a healthy ego-identity or transcend it?
It’s Wise Wednesdays! I’m back from the desert. Thank you for your patience. I hope you’ve had a great couple of weeks and welcome to new...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Feb 1, 20223 min read
HOW TO GET INTO THE FLOW OF SUCCESS
Remember the last time you were “on a roll”? Remember that feeling that you couldn’t set your foot wrong, the serendipity was astounding...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Feb 1, 20224 min read
Fear of overwhelm: another facette of fear of uncertainty?
It’s well and truly the Autumn in the UK and this could be a busy period for you as projects start to pick up momentum again. Things have...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Feb 1, 20222 min read
It’s dark in here… [the change process]
I work with some of the world’s most incredible doctors and high performing professionals. The courage in the challenges they take; and...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Feb 1, 20223 min read
The emergency date that was so me (one doctor to the rescue…)
“How you do anything is how you do everything”… Here I was on a first date getting through the initial chit chat and sipping a hot...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Feb 1, 20223 min read
Are you a rescuer? (careers and power series)
Ever wondered how far you should compromise in relationships whether at home or at work? Should you take on that project/task to avoid...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Feb 1, 20223 min read
Understanding fear and transforming it into an ally
“F-E-A-R has two meanings: ‘Forget Everything And Run’ or ‘Face Everything And Rise.’ The choice is yours.” Zig Ziglar FEAR IS A SIGNAL...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Feb 1, 20225 min read
Three things I learned about solving dilemmas
It’s Soulful Sundays! Replacing this week's Wise Wednesdays which was delayed as I had to focus on the launch of the Royal Society of...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Feb 1, 20224 min read
Are you serving a mission or serving an ego? Social exclusion, fantasy and simple kindness.
***************************** Allow me to add a morning shot to your macchiato ☺ I’m doing a 20 minute interview Thursday morning at...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Feb 1, 20224 min read
Clinicians, conferences and Clangers: how a cartoon can turn into the dream self-care programme.
FEELING TIRED?... Have you ever been through periods of inexplicable lethargy and wondered what it was all about? Are you going through...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Feb 1, 20225 min read
Why you might really be a barbarian (even if you’re working in the NHS)
Have you every wondered why relationships, whether at work or personal life, are so complicated? It’s estimated that 50% of us have...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Feb 1, 20224 min read
How codependence can ruin your career (and what to do about it)
Have you ever felt that you’re putting more into your job than you are getting back? Or find that your health, hobbies and relationships...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Feb 1, 20224 min read
"Are you happy?" Handling the most annoying question in the world
“Are you happy?”… What do you say when asked this question? Do you gush about how awesome everything is in your life? Do you enumerate...
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