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What to do when you don’t know what to do [Wise Wednesdays]
How do you know what to do when you don’t know what to do (especially around big decisions like changing career or life)? If you’re...
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Finding strength and peace in troubled times [Wise Wednesdays]
Tolstoy had imposter syndrome. At the height of his fame as one of the most celebrated authors of his time, he felt like a failure...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
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Taming microaggressions [Wise Wednesdays ]
TAMING MICROAGGRESSIONS PART 2 [WISE WEDNESDAYS] I shared in a post on Facebook recently that I never know how to answer the “ethnicity...
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Breaking the cycles that trap us [Wise Wednesdays ]
My mother heard the first gunshot. And then the second. She’d been told to come straight back from school, and hurried on. As she looked...
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I didn’t realise how stressed I was these past 10 years [Wise Wednesdays ]
Sometimes it takes a brutal wakeup call to slow down and realign your life, and sometimes it doesn’t. A few people just decide one day...
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From frozen inside to heart on fire in life[Workshop]
It was a grey afternoon in 2009. The therapist stared silently across from me as I wriggled awkwardly in the chair. I felt so vulnerable...
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How to rediscover the sweet spot in life [Workshop]
When your heart is on fire... The historic times we live in have amplified a sense of purpose and inspiration in me and many of my...
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5 powerful lessons from lockdown for authentic happiness [Wise Wednesdays]
The spectrum of reactions to lockdown has been wide. From introverted thinkers who’ve relished time away from the office with their...
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When doctors get stressed this is what they [Wise Wednesdays]
Celebration: It’s four years since the first Wise Wednesdays. It was on How to deal with cabin fever, and seems as relevant as ever…Happy...
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The ultimate solution to time and energy management [Wise Wednesdays]
When I was 14, I believed there was an ultimate solution to everything. I chose advanced mathematics for high school and I was going to...
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What happened to your book? [Wise Wednesdays]
What happened to your book? WHAT HAPPENED TO YOUR BOOK? Have you ever shared an idea that you were excited about and then forgot about...
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A time to lead: 3 ways to be an unstoppable leader
As the pandemic kicked off, I remember resolving to lie low and ride it out quietly. But the strangest thing happened. As I gave myself...
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How to be useful in a crisis [Wise Wednesdays!]
A friend asked me recently whether I’d been called back to the frontline as a doctor, since coronavirus struck. When I explored that a...
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Caged with calories to burn and nowhere to exercise: managing diet and exercise in lockdown. [Wise
Caged with calories to burn and nowhere to exercise: managing diet and exercise in lockdown. A healthy diet and exercise can be a bit of...
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How to give (and receive) a virtual hug [Wise Wednesdays]
“I just need a hug right now”. It’s hard enough to ask for one of those under normal circumstances, especially if you’re a strong and...
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3 signs you’re ready for the big pivot [Wise Wednesdays]
The best way to predict the future is to create it. If you're wondering what to do with yourself in these times, the answer is simple:...
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The Big Pivot: a powerful lockdown mindset? [Wise Wednesdays]
If you live on Planet Earth, then you’ve probably become very aware of the need for the drastic reorganisation that our societies are...
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Can a "guru" help you deal with uncertainty? [Wise Wednesdays]
Coronavirus is playing on most people’s nerves at the moment. The more it spreads the greater the fear, the greater the fear, the more...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Apr 23, 20233 min read
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Should I leave my job? [Wise Wednesdays]
Whether to leave your job is a big question. And it isn’t. Changing careers is becoming increasingly common, let alone changing jobs....
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Apr 23, 20232 min read
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Why no one will ever understand you. And that’s OK. [Wise Wednesdays]
Persuasion and influence seem to be a big deal at the moment. Gone are the days of command-and-control in the VUCA (Volatile, Uncertain,...
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