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Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Apr 23, 20233 min read
Why goals are useless for innovative thinking [Wise Wednesdays]
If you’ve ever gotten caught in procrastination, you’ll know that having a goal is not enough to get things done. In my experience, when...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Apr 23, 20232 min read
Beyond fear of failure: 4 entrepreneur demons [Wise Wednesdays]
I had a coaching conversation with a high achieving doctor recently. She wanted to grow a social enterprise helping young people to gain...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Apr 23, 20233 min read
I always knew we would fail: a success story [Wise Wednesdays]
I once sang in a jazz ensemble. The drummer was going through a tough time and I was struck by something he said: when I play the drums I...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Apr 23, 20233 min read
The job, the bills and the cardboard box: stop looking for your purpose and try these 2 things inste
About a billion people are unfulfilled at work. According to Gallup’s Global State of the Workplace survey, 85% of employees are “not...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Apr 23, 20232 min read
Post-holiday joy: why January is a reason to chin up [Wise Wednesdays]
Over a decade ago, an article titled “festive medical myths” was published in the British Medical Journal. It listed misconceptions such...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Apr 23, 20231 min read
A time to let go [Wise Wednesdays]
It was spring/summer 2014 when I found myself in tears on a park bench outside the building where I worked. I think it was the first time...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Apr 23, 20235 min read
3 reasons goal-setting sucks in the 21st century and 4 tips [Wise Wednesdays]
Think about some of the best moments or opportunities of your life or career: chances are there was an element of spontaneity and...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Apr 23, 20233 min read
Do you need more qualifications to be a leader? [Wise Wednesdays]
This question came up on the last webinar as well as on a leadership training I did for a group of bright dentists specialising in...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Apr 23, 20233 min read
Why there’s no such thing as work-life balance and what to do about it [Wise Wednesdays]
I’ve never been inspired by the idea of work-life balance. It sounds like a false dichotomy and an arbitrary one. It’s the product of a...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Apr 23, 20234 min read
The birth and death of toxic work cultures [Wise Wednesdays]
November 1st, 1954 – Northern Algeria: Midnight: A gunshot is heard, followed by a series of attacks on military barracks. The Algerian...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Apr 23, 20233 min read
Feeling stuck? Stop trying to find your passion and step into the unknown [Wise Wednesdays]
Coaching case study: A bright young medical student comes to see you. He wants career advice because he’s in turmoil. He’s not sure he...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Apr 23, 20234 min read
The organic career: 10 principles for fewer goals and more flow [Wise Wednesdays]
This month, I was invited by an engagement and equity initiative of the Structural Engineers Association of Northern California to give a...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Apr 23, 20234 min read
The problem with the current mental health paradigm [Wise Wednesdays]
OK, it’s a long one. A lifetime’s worth of exploration in a page. The first time I met a psychotic patient, I was a medical student....
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Apr 23, 20233 min read
The real reason you’re short on time [Wise Wednesdays]
Approximately 100% of people I speak to are short on time. Work, business, partner, kids, health, friends, family, hobbies, travel,...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Apr 23, 20232 min read
The price of freedom: top 4 fears when considering a career leap into independence [Wise Wednesdays]
Can you be happy while chasing goals? It’s part of the high achiever paradox. I had a social conversation last week with the head of...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Apr 23, 20233 min read
Forget about mindset. Set your mind free to succeed instead
Have you ever been advised to work on your mindset? As a coach, I’ve worked with “mindset” and clients certainly find it helpful to know...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Apr 23, 20232 min read
Slow down to succeed
This week, the only wisdom I have to share is this: slow down if you’re going too fast. “How we spend our days is how we spend our...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Apr 23, 20233 min read
Why positive thinking doesn't work (and the alternative)
Do you use affirmations or positive thinking?... Great idea in theory. But how long does the effect last? Of course, it feels great...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Apr 23, 20233 min read
Beyond anxiety: the true meaning of sweet nothing
What is (modern) anxiety? A client and I were discussing this during a two hour intensive session. Anxiety, fear and excitement share...
Amina Aitsi-Selmi
Apr 23, 20232 min read
Why you shouldn’t focus on goals (do this instead)
A super-achiever client asked me last week: how can I relate more healthily to goals? Great question. She’s an all-round power house...
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